
Okay, so last evening I picked up my dad and we headed off to York College to hear a lecture from Dr. Tony Campolo. Being a late bloomer, (now that my formal schooling has been on hold since I earned a B.A. in 1989), suddenly now that it doesn't really matter, I actually love attending lectures! Go figure! Of course, being the autograph junkie that I am, I had Campolo's two most recent books in tow, in hopes of obtaining yet another autograph.
We arrived early, as planned, in order to get a seat near the front, which we did. Tony filled a good hour with a fabulous mix of sociology (his academic field), theology (he is an ordained Baptist minister), humor (he is just plain funny!), stories (as only he can tell them), and quotes from the Bible, old hymns, existentialists, philosophers, scientists and on and on. He talked around a recent sociological study where fifty people over the age of ninety-five were asked the opened ended question, "If you could live your life over, what would you do differently?" The answers all centered around three things. First, they would risk more. Secondly, they would reflect more. And lastly, they would do more things that would outlive them. Tony spent the hour moving the audience through these three points in practical ways. He ended the evening by challenging all of us to change the world one relationship at a time. He pleaded with us to visit orphans and widows a la the book of James, to sponsor a Compassion International child or give up a summer or more in the inner cities or in the (so called) Third World serving "the least of these" that Jesus talks about. It was a moving talk. Deep and challenging. Gospel filled in an ecumenical way. I soaked up every word, took many notes. He ended the lecture and exited stage left. I got what he said and hoped everyone else did as well! And now let the autograph festivities begin!
Dad went out the back to find a friend he saw earlier. I went down front hurriedly with my book in hand, jostling for a place near the star of the evening. I arrived second, behind an older gentleman who shook Tony's hand and made a few nice comments. Just after I arrived at my place in line (second) and while I waited for my time to come, I noticed to my left another man also jostling for position. He was dirty looking. Hair unkempt, over sized glasses, looking raggedy and out of place. Even more troubling than the aura he was putting off, was the fact that he appeared to be trying to move from third to second in line...ahead of me! When the first man had completed his turn with Tony. Tony looked at the man and then at me. Without saying anything I handed him my book as if to say......."hey I'm next!" He asked my name and signed my book. I told him how much I enjoyed his lecture, thanked him for coming to York and also thanked him for his part in bringing his former student, Shane Claiborne, to the world. My turn was over, I walked away, satisfied in both the lecture and my still wet autograph!
As I walked toward the back, I looked back at Tony. I stopped in my tracks and heard from thirty feet away, as the crowd scattered, the real lecture, the lasting lecture. What I heard was not audible, yet it screamed and was powerful. It lasted only thirty seconds rather than 60 minutes, but it was the best part of the evening and the real lasting lecture. I watched from my platform of judgement and impatience as the well dressed, well respected, well educated Dr. Tony Campolo opened his arms wide and hugged this man who I had beaten to the front of the line. He didn't just hug him, he held him. Dr. Campolo and I saw two different men. I saw a dirty, you are not as good as me, go to the end of the line, I was here first man. Tony took the time to look into the man's eyes and saw a person, made in the image of God. He saw Jesus in disguise and he held him close. Tony had just finished sharing about real love, which flows into us from God and then out of us to others. He, as always, talked about being compassionate. I, along with God above, got to witness his real lecture. Anyone can utter words, good words. But few seem to back them up with actions, especially when no one is looking. Well almost no one!
Thanks, Tony! I got it!...hopefully, I will keep it!?



